Shefali is a mother of 3 beautiful children, a maid by profession but more so a real fighter.
Yes, we were very lucky to have Shefali working for us as a housemaid.Although I have had limited interactions with her ,that too only on weekends when I am at home but she has inspired me beyond words with her unwavering commitment to work.
Today was her last day at work as she is finally moving to her homeland , West Bengal.
Parting with her was not easy for us because she was a beautiful human being.
This lady who had a troublesome , abusive , alcoholic and a good for nothing husband , was singlehandedly bringing up her children by working hard as a day time maid.Her work always and I mean "ALWAYS" spoke of PERFECTION.She had set her bar for perfection at a much higher level than what was expected from her.She would never even leave a speck of dust in any nook or corner and would always leave the house spick and span!.Her dedication towards her work despite of her hardships was really inspiring. Infact, it was astonishing!- I mean how come someone who has all the reasons to crib , cry and curse life can work so meticulously and positively! To be really honest, we never told her what to do.She did everything on her own , more than what was expected and with total perfection! Every day she inspired us with her actions , her smile and her beautiful persona.She truly touched our hearts in the most beautiful way! I believe that's the beauty of human connections.
In fact I must say, everyday as I used to juggle with the questions of "what's my life purpose?", "how do i achieve work-life balance and true fulfillment?" , I was reminded of Shefali and that is when I used to think that unlike me there are many Shefalis who don't have the luxury to even think about "life and purpose" ; who find their purpose in everyday living, in moments and in doing; those who have no time and resources to think or plan for their future and yet they set examples of excellence for us.
I think no work is big or small.Life is more about giving your best to whatever work comes your way.Only if we understand this simple message, we will lead more peaceful and fulfilling lives than breaking our heads and spoiling our time in futile thinking!
This also reminds me of a gentleman I came across in a supermarket a few weeks ago. He was working at the gift wrapping section.I went to him to get something gift wrapped and I was almost stumbled to see with what precision he did a simple job of gift-wrapping! I was wondering , if this man is left on his own, he can create wonders! I feel if people like him and Shefali who were born in unfortunate circumstances can celebrate life with such vigour then we who are blessed with all the comforts have no right to crib at all !
Thank you Shefali for making me realize that life will never give us any meaning , we have to give life a meaning and let that meaning bring joy and contentment to us!
In times of distress,confusion and self doubt, I hope to remember and follow the footprints that you have left behind! May your tribe increase! May we all see the Light! Amen.
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